(PS back- I hope you don't think I'm overanalytical of finding typos. A) I really can't turn it off, I've tried, and b) your stories are so well written, I hate seeing something to distract me from them.)

It's truly all about delivery, I don't believe you're being malicious when you do it as opposed to the 'God, this is horrible and you don't know what your talking about and all your commas are wrong too!' school of delivery.