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hackthis_archive) wrote2006-09-12 08:32 am
hackthis_archive) wrote2006-09-12 08:32 am
Ari is not happy.
The other day I got what I originally thought was a flame, except upon a second third fifth read I realized it was just an opinion. The person liked the story, and found it well-written (go team ![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
hackthis!) but didn't like the gay aspect. Or didn't like the porn part.
Now considering that the disclaimer on my profile says "writer writes SLASH!" I was a little befuddled... but you know, the person thought the story was really good except for the slash part. To which I eventually just said, 'Uh... okay, opinions are like assholes. I can respect that.' And yet, all I've heard this morning is that people think there's only one asshole to go around. There is only one point of view and if you don't agree well then you are evol and should be fed for the Minotaur! For the sanitary sake of all, I hope there's truly more than oneasshole opinion to go around, but one more time for the people in the back who have the craptastic acoustics:
Dissent is not disloyalty
Disagreeing with someone's views, whatever the fuck they are, does not automatically make them a bad person. We can all wish it did, but it doesn't. Dissent doesn't make you a good person either. Slinging hash and saying that someone is a horrible no-good very bad person behind locked posts, because you're not going to step up and say it to their faces? Weak. So weak.
What really tears it though, is that it's really just one or two people that piss in the pool* and then everybody has to get out and wash off, and parents are upset and threatening litigation, and you know, that's just not the spirit we came here in. I thought the whole point of this social experiment called fandom was to bring the people who disagree and the people who agree and the people who don't give a fuck (normally, that would be me) together, so we can all hug it out and talk about the porn and give ponies and have a good time.
Can't we just kick it old skool, or what?
*If you want someone to piss on you, I have a friend that knows this ace dominatrix who can do it for a very reasonable price.
+ I dun forgot, I posted music the other day for the September Frankenstein Mix, in case anybody's feeling the need for some tunes.
++ I found this posting byamezri on fandom and forums and acting like you have brain which I enjoyed reading. *gacked from voleuse
hackthis!) but didn't like the gay aspect. Or didn't like the porn part. Now considering that the disclaimer on my profile says "writer writes SLASH!" I was a little befuddled... but you know, the person thought the story was really good except for the slash part. To which I eventually just said, 'Uh... okay, opinions are like assholes. I can respect that.' And yet, all I've heard this morning is that people think there's only one asshole to go around. There is only one point of view and if you don't agree well then you are evol and should be fed for the Minotaur! For the sanitary sake of all, I hope there's truly more than one
Disagreeing with someone's views, whatever the fuck they are, does not automatically make them a bad person. We can all wish it did, but it doesn't. Dissent doesn't make you a good person either. Slinging hash and saying that someone is a horrible no-good very bad person behind locked posts, because you're not going to step up and say it to their faces? Weak. So weak.
What really tears it though, is that it's really just one or two people that piss in the pool* and then everybody has to get out and wash off, and parents are upset and threatening litigation, and you know, that's just not the spirit we came here in. I thought the whole point of this social experiment called fandom was to bring the people who disagree and the people who agree and the people who don't give a fuck (normally, that would be me) together, so we can all hug it out and talk about the porn and give ponies and have a good time.
Can't we just kick it old skool, or what?
*If you want someone to piss on you, I have a friend that knows this ace dominatrix who can do it for a very reasonable price.
+ I dun forgot, I posted music the other day for the September Frankenstein Mix, in case anybody's feeling the need for some tunes.
++ I found this posting by
amezri on fandom and forums and acting like you have brain which I enjoyed reading. *gacked from voleuse
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I always get the impression that in fandom, if I disagree with someone it equals not liking them. I guess it's because in fandom people are often not defined by who they are, but by what they like, so any disagreements end up equalling personal attacks. It's all just kind of exhausting and I wish we could all just roll around in the mud and have a good time.
1) WORD.
2) MUD!!!!!
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I just want him to stand there and look pretty (which, is basically what he does, ain't it?).
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